Today while for many of you is either just begining or you are still warm and asleep in your bed.
It dawned on me today Ex's are Ex's for a reason. While I try to maintain some simbalance of politeness and friendship towards my Ex he and I just do not get along. As per a parenting agreement he is supposed to provide dental insurance for the kids and in 3 years has yet to do that and during Christmas he is supposed to help with that as well and refuses too now.. he has actually set up a seperate bank account so as he doesnt have to help which I find funny.
Our conversation was abstract this morning.. he has now said he wants no contact from me ever again. Does this mean I can tell the kids what a worthless peice of flaming dog shit he truly is?? No of course not I know this and they will learn all on their own who and what he really is. I will never deny them their parental father although he doesnt deserve much from them.
Thats ok though baby Girl has asked her Step Dad to adopt her. she loves him and he is her "daddy" he is the one she adores and sadly he has been in her life longer than her own father has. Luckly they love one another and adore one another.
Now I get the tedious task of just letting the states that have ordered all finacially responsibility on his end to just take care of it and mail it to me. I however am wishing him nothing but love and happiness in his life. I dont even hate him because I would have to care about the person to hate him. I feel sorry for him.
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I am so happy you're in another country. And I am glad ~P~ is a good guy.
Oh man.. You said he might pull this stuff on you. I don't know how people can live with themselves doing this to their children. And you know what one day they will both figure it all out. HUGS!!!! I am so glad you are in a better space w/ a good guy! KUDDOS!
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