This year seems to already be escaping me. The bubbies turned 1 last month.. Baby Girl turns 7 this month and Girl Pants turns 15 this month. THAT is the one I am having a issue wrapping my brain around.. WHEN did I get old enough to have a 15 year old? a TEENAGER??? Although he doesnt live here with me and I only get to talk to him every weekend or every other weekend depending on what he is doing.
Mr.Man is doing good we have our days still but I am finding ways to make it better for him.
I am finding that when you are so far away that your friends become a new family for you. They are the ones you call *because it is cheaper than always calling the states* they are right there you can go to them and cry! You love their children and worry about them. It is amazing how csomeone not related to you by blood can become a new family for you. I am thankful for the friends I have!.
Today and yesterday are cold and rainy icky days which is such a change from the 70+ degree weather we had almost all of April but then April was the warmest here that it had been in like 130 years!! Mother Nature is taking care of herself.. creating extreme heats and colds in certain areas and as sad as it is it does kill some people.. As my friend put it Population control God style!! I now some will say it has nothing to do with that it is ALL about Global warming.. Ok maybe thats a part of it but I do think every x amount of years the earth does the whole Global warming on its own to clean itself and protect itself. Now when I am old and grey if it has not gotten better by then I will take my humble pie.
Soo.. a few people know and a few do not. Mr. Man is on Prozac.. and if you are going to flame me.. GET OFF MY BLOG NOW!
I was so leery about putting him on medication. To have to write on medical questionaires does he take any medicine daily? I hate writing yes. So why do you give it to him then?? back in November when he first started the medication when I started to see the child I ALWAYS knew he was I was amazed.. then thought MAYBE just MAYBE he really doesn't need the medication. but then he built up a tolerance to it and the weepy always on pins and needles the world is coming to a end.. If Kevlar helmet owner goes anywhere he is going to die child came back. The one who got so frustfrated with things that he wanted to throw the Bubbies off our balcony.. So I let the Dr know and we upped his dose. Per the therapist He was taking his meds on his own and was doing a good job but slowly he would forget this day that day etc etc etc and the meds do not work nearly as effectively when he does that. My son when he is even is such a neat kid.. he has started drawing and telling jokes and becoming this kid who is just amazing. Mind you he has been diagnosed as I said before with a anxiety disorder and the medication helps him control that to see what he was afraid of is not nearly as terrifying as he once thought.
In Other news.. Anyone know a Attorney who works in California who will do family law help for a military family Pro Bono?? A girl can dream can't she?? I have found otu some rather interesting things that will help Us with the Child support issues.. NOW i do think KHO is financially to help with his other son he has with his Ex wife in California but the amount we pay for 1 child is outrageous!!!! And she manipulates the courts as well so that doesnt help us at all.
I have a appt with Jag to have them help us with all this. maybe she can give us more information. Help me with filing and filling out the paperwork to change the amount!>
My house in Colorado will be officially sold come July.. and I am much sadder about it than I thought I would be. I worked so hard to get us to where we were there. BUT! I am looking at trying to be as positive about everything that is handed to us. I am the type of person if I stop seeing the positive in things I will get very depressed and lately I have been fighting the situational depression a LOT lately. On the upside the mean Boob baby is down to only nursing to sleep and when he wakes up at night.. I think I did this backwards!! but to have my body as Mine and mine only for a few hours a day is nice.. but I want it to be mine ALWAYS and also because I would like to lose some more weight. and those damn nursing munchies and cravings!!
Ohhh... 
A couple things he got for his Birthday!
He is a little Mini me of his Daddy!!
1 comment:
First you must know I love the name of your blog!
Second... my 7 yr old has now been diagnosed with mild anxiety. There will be no judging from this lady.
And as a person that moved away... those friends that are becoming life family... they are the best. They are now more part of our lives then the family that has moved to this town. So best wishes in making yourself a wonderful family!
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